Signs

Are there really such things as "signs" or do we pick and chose our own signs in life. What are the steps we take when making a hard decision, and how do we go about choosing them? How do we know if we make the right choice? Is it a gut feeling do we really just go on "signs" we think we see or feel. Sometimes it feels like you have to make a decision that you never thought you would have to think about. Sometimes life takes us by surprise and sweeps us off our feet.